I want to start off by saying if this isn't the right subreddit that I am sorry and will take it down. I'll also try and not make this too long.
Me and my girlfriend both play ff14, we live together and play in the same room. We have been playing for around 3 years and had a few small bumps along the way. When we started out we joined the same fc (guild). The issue eventually became she felt shadowed by me. She felt that everyone loved me and she was just my girlfriend and people didn't really pay her any attention. This was a small issue for us that almost resulted in her quitting the game. Fast forward, the fc fell apart and we went our own way together. We made our fc and for a year recruited no one. In this time she said the game became stale for her. She wanted more of a challenge. She wanted to do savage raiding and maybe one day clear an ultimate. Which she achieved. In this time she found a static and even cleared an ultimate fight. I watched her progress and cheered her on. Now she has a lot of friends and clears content she never thought she could. These are some things she wanted for years. A good group of friends who like her for her, not just being my girlfriend. And the ability to clear the hardest content in the game. Which I applaud her for cause honestly not many people can. The issue I have is with a new friend she has made. He seems casually charming and all around decent guy. My issue is this guy never leaves her side. When she logs on, he is at her house and stays with her until whenever (she stays up all night and plays until the early hours sometimes until I wake up to go to work). I've also noticed they use <3 emojis from time to time and dote each other a lot (kiss) and it just rubs me the wrong way. They play with each other anywhere from 8 to 12 hours a day. I'm not really the jealous type but this has been bothering me a lot lately. I don't suspect anything foul, I mean she doesn't hide her chat or anything but it still makes me feel isolated and just not important anymore. I don't want her to change anything though, I'm glad she is having this much fun playing the game, even if it's not with me that's okay. I just don't know how to maintain my emotions and feelings on the topic at hand. It's late where I am so I have to go to bed now. I want advice, opinions, first hand experience, anything that can help me through this fog I've found myself in. I want to thank everyone for the replies, advice, perspectives and so on. I'm sorry I can't reply to each one because of work but I wanted to say I have read every message everyone has posted and I really appreciate everyone taking their time to help me with my situation.
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